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3rd meeting


Going to my 3rd meeting tonight. Active AH still fighting it hard. Came home with 2 six packs and then tried to guilt me in to not going because we were going to go over bills. I said we could do it tomorrow and he came up with 3 more reasons why tonight is not a good night. I just feel like if I tell yall I'm going then I will be more inclined to go, because I don't like to flake out after I've promised something. So I'm going. 



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Good for you! Hope you made it to your meeting and found some peace!
Namaste

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((Cmag)) Good job . I love to witness your courage and detachment

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I too applaud your courage and commitment to self-care! Keep doing you and trust the process!

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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging.  Pause before assuming.  Pause before accusing.  Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret.  ~~~~  Lori Deschene

 

 



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Well done, and well spotted! I hope you have a good meeting and feel happy to be part of the journey.

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Thank you all! I did go, and I am so glad I did!

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Good.

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Good on you Cmag - good on you.....I do remember it feeling really strange to focus on me and put me first, yet also gratifying as time went on....my hope is this is similar for you!!

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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging.  Pause before assuming.  Pause before accusing.  Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret.  ~~~~  Lori Deschene

 

 



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Well done! Your recovery is more important than his reasons for you not to go. Keep strong.

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