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hi everybody ,been missing my home group here,missing you all,I've been checking and reading a lot in the aca online group,very awesome I saw myself over n over in the laundry lists,scary at 1st.i accepted it,and went on about my wanting to learn more.ive also had moving on my mind last few days,im 53 years old and 2 kids both married and gone moved from here,nothing keeping me here in this town anymore,been living here in this same house for 14 yrs ,done a lot of work to it and put money into it over the years,but I got to checking out apts for rent which I rent this house so ill have nothing to lose there either,the apts I looked at in the same town my son lives in were really nice and convenient and homey,no mowing thank gosh all yard work is done thats music to my I ears,and benefits to these apts with in ground pools ,and lots more.so Monday I can call some of these places up and see what's available,thinking just on a one bedroom only,is all I'll need just get a couch with a bed,simple.no more stresses with anybody of my foo moving in,won't be allowed.problem solved.its not my kids I have to stress over its siblings and xbf I have moving in on me and then take over my home inside and outside,I'm so tired and not getting any younger I deserve to be able to enjoy my life and do as I want when I want ,ill have peace hopefully,I've never lived in a apt,even thought about maybe a duplex .i dunno I guess I have a lot of options there for sure........hugs lu



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You sound good Lu, taking care of yourself
And focusing on you and your healing And
growing.

Glad ACA is helping you on your recovery
journey too

I love having my own apt and not sharing it
If i needed to downsize i would go studio Or
rent a room.

Sending you healing hug

(((((( Lu )))))))



-- Edited by Mirandac on Saturday 18th of June 2016 06:41:28 PM

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Thank you Mirandac ,actually my healing is all coming from alanon 12 step work.im just now tapping into the aca recovery.....hugs lu

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HI LU I love living in an apartment I donot have to worry about the plumber, the lawn or the electrician All I do is call the management company and it is all fixed. Positive thoughts on the way.

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That sounds like music to my ears Betty,I e never lived in a apartment just knowing all the yard work will be done sounds great,frees my time up a lot to work on my priorities,I'd rather be going and loafing about than stuck in a house as big as this house I'm in ,lots to do here ,more for someone that loves staying at home and with a child,was real reason I moved here 13 yrs ago with my son,now he is grown ,married and moved away,so I'm not giving up on finding me a one bedroom place ,there seems to be a 2 yr waiting list here on apts,putting it all in my hp hands I've done all I know to do at this point,I'm good right now for I love my house,just don't want all the yard work that goes with it and it's more than I need .time to downsize.......hugs lu

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