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Post Info TOPIC: I can leave the house anytime I want and not feel nervous


~*Service Worker*~

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I can leave the house anytime I want and not feel nervous


I have only admitted this to one person, but I hardly left the house when the liquor store was open.  I guess I thought in my twisted mind that if I was home from 11-7 all would be good.  When I look back I think wow I really was the alcohol police.  I don't do that anymore and it has given me such freedom.  If he drinks, he drinks.  If he wants to get out with me fine and if not fine too.  I am only responsible for myself and no one else.  I sure wish I would have seen this years ago, but at least I have now.  Al-Anon works it really does.  Thanks everybody.



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~*Service Worker*~

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Oh wow. Yes I remember feeling like a high-tension wire until 10pm when all of the liquor stores in our old town had closed and I could finally relax. What a way to live!!
Thanks to you too. We're doing it together and isn't the freedom fantastic

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If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is, because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn't be. And what it wouldn't be, it would. You see? (Lewis Caroll)



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It is for sure!

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Great Recovery Jen and Ms.M. It is amazing how fear creeps in and haunts us.
So glad that Alanon gave me tools to live with the courage, and wisdom to live life on livfe's terms.

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~*Service Worker*~

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Ive got a relationship with opening hours to that still lingers in me like an automatic response. Its good to let go.

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