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I'm getting it...finally


I am making progress with detaching from my AH. After seeing that nasty website stuff, it has actually helped me detach even more. I am able to ignore stuff he says or texts to me. I don't find myself getting upset as much as I used to. I have to live in the here and now. he and I both mad a mistake by getting married. But the positive outcome is our daughter. I am trying to look at the positive things in life. I walked my dog early in the morning yesterday and today. It was nice and peaceful. 

I am focusing on my relationship with my HP God. 

I am also realizing my current job isn't enough hours. I am barely scraping by since AH hasn't been helping me because he doesn't have a job. So I have to take care of myself. I am looking at full time jobs. I would be changing into a completely different area in my profession. I would have less commute traffic as well. So I am making another change, hopefully, and I think it will be for the best. I am tired of doing the same type of work for the last 24 years. 

Please keep me in your thoughts/ prayers as I look for a new job and detach more from AH. I really want to be happy. 

 

Thanks for for being here for me!!



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Got it!!  Prayers indeed!!   HP's listening and reading...just know it.  (((((hugs))))) smile



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My prayers are definitely with you. I know that feeling of shrugging of the old emotions and starting fresh..have done it twice in the last 14years. I love going out with my dog..I do it every morning. There is a sense of calmness around me when I do. Starting again can be exciting and scary at the same time. I to am changing my career plans. I have been working in factories all my working life(26years)..im giving up my job next year to go back to school. I wont have a lot of money but I feel comfort in knowing I am doing what is best for me. Sending you hugs and love on your new journey



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I too love those early morning hours, perhaps it is the new beginning of each day!

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YAY! Change can be your friend! I am happy to read this. Sounds exciting in many ways.

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Wow, change can be scary, but oh so rewarding. Sending you prayers, love and support.

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tradition seven self supporting.

I like to apply the traditions to my life.

I am responsible for my life it feels good to have the security of knowing I look after Me !!!!

I was saving to but my home my partner was also saving part of the deposit but I made sure I would still be able to do it with out him was a bonus but not a necessity.  £ months ago he slipped and spend his part of the deposit.  I have just started the process of buying my home alone.  I have to make it even if he doesn't, 

Every journey starts with a single step.

I do the footwork and hand over the outcomes to Hp.

 

Stand back and watch the miracles happen.  I don't need to say goof luck it is not about luck if you are meant to find the new job hp will deliver.

 

hugs tracy xxxxx



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I am praying for you NLG and I'm glad you are making progress. I have recently realized that even when we slip, we are making progress when we become aware of the slips and learn from them.

one day at a time.

it works if you work it.



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Prayers promised!

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Good job. One day at a time......put the applications in and see what happens....you never know. But to not do the job hunting ....nothing happens as you know.

((( hugs )))



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