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I messed up .. UGH ..


Apparently I like big messes in my life .. for once I don't want to get into detail .. just please say some prayers for the kids and I .. it's all going to be ok .. I just am not sure how it's all going to turn out and it's not good .. I'm not going to minimize it .. it is what it is and I will have to face the consequences of my actions.  Or in this case .. non actions .. the old saying no decision is still a decision completely applies. 

Hugs S :)



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I hope it's not that serious. I know you can be critical of yourself. This is also the exact title of a post you made years ago when your then husband found out about you posting here (Which was not a mistake). So prayers...yes indeed, but I'm hoping this is more like that in terms of being something that seems bad but maybe isn't that bad. Either way...in support of you!....

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Hugs Pink .. no this is not good .. and I could care less what he reads at this point .. LOL .. I chose to ignore and not communicate about a situation because I didn't have the information and times were hard to get to the where I needed to be and NOW it's serious .. I'm just hoping I can figure a way out of it all.

THANK YOU for being here :)

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I'm sorry, sweetie! I don't know the details but I can pray for you and for things to work out in a positive way for you and the kids. We all mess up, we're human, be gentle on yourself! HUGS!

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Prayers, Serenity.

 



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Something that I'm working on currently and will continue to work on is the fact that I need to stop procrastinating .. everything would be FINE .. LOL .. if I would just STOP doing that one self sabotaging behavior and that's the one that I'm really struggling with at the moment. I think it's going to be ok .. it's just a matter of can I make certain things happen quickly and WILL I be able to keep moving forward.

Hugs S :)

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I will send you prayers that it will work out and not set you back to much. It's scary for one of our own having a problem they can't even mention....it makes me scared for you.

((( Serenity )))


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Serenity,

You've had so many balls in the air for so long. I hope this will be resolved quickly and the best way for you and your children and you can get back to taking deep breaths.

Hugs,
Temple

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Prayers on the way (((hugs)))

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Ugh I'm so sorry - hopefully everything will turn out ok. Praying for you. :)

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Serenity...procrastination is a wide subject of mine also which has reached middle ground between the extreme reactions I use to employ before Al-Anon and then learning about letting go and letting God as the Serenity Prayer teaches.  Often times I will not attempt movement when I don't have any solutions and need to employ patience. Procrastinating is also known as waiting and what I've learned is that if I can live with the consequences I'm okay.  Having realistic expectations helps also. (((hugs))) smile



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Sending Hugs ((((((Serenity))))))
You can do it, one step, one bite sized piece at a time. What a great lesson to be learning

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Im sorry serenity, I hooe it works out, you deserve a break.

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