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But I also want to do what's best for me weather my bf is still seeing that woman or not I keep a feeling that he is I maybe wrong but I got some stuff on her that she cheats on her husband so my bf just left and said he was going to a buddy of his I dunno if he is telling the truth ,I'm got dressed put my makeup on and am ready to go visiting agin,I just started wearing makeup a little while back when my bf messed up,I'm trying to take care of me despite of whatever he is doing behind my back.i told him this. Or ing if there was someone else he wanted to go get them he just smacked his lips ,I so want to learn how to put him in the back of my mind and to be able to honestly say what in the world did I ever see in him.



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Serenity prayer, meetings telephone calls to alanon friends helps

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Your working on it, your doing really well. Make up always makes me feel better too. When I felt defeated and full of self pity I kinda wanted the world to see how I felt so putting make up on and feeling ok makes me feel like a fighter, its my message to myself that im ok, I can handle just about anything.

I think whatevers happening with your bf will be revealed to you in due course, maybe your hp wants you to know when its good for you. In the meantime, going visiting, doing nice things for you is helping take your mind off him and also a nice soothing, pleasant thing just for you and I think of that as healing the wounds little by little.

Making some nice new habits so helped me, mine are reading my alanon books and sometimes I write out the main points, writing a gratitude list and spending a bit of time with nature, even just looking at the sky or trees, sounds a bit naff but it works for me.

im only 2 years in but I can see your progress lookingup, im so hopeful for you, just keep on with what your doing.x

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