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Post Info TOPIC: So, I will be going back with my dad.


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So, I will be going back with my dad.


Hi Everyone,

My name is slogan_jim and I am a grateful member of al-anon.

I have decided that in order to save some money for my home purchase I will take my dad upon his offer and live with him while I search. I feel it's best for me and my needs.

I don't know what to think. I am nervous, but I have the tools to deal with it. I have the power of decision and the power to stand up for myself.

I will definitely keep coming back.



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It's good to be going into things with the new tools and new awareness.  That can make all the difference.

Do you also have a Plan B for if things go south?  Sometimes just having a Plan B helps keep things calm, even if you never use it.

Keep on taking good care of yourself!



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You will likely be amazed how different itis with your new awareness!

Kenny

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Just continue to take care of you....

Let go Let God take care of him..

(( hugs ))


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I hope things go well, or that you are able to keep your serenity as much as possible. I like Mattie's idea of Plan B, just to take the pressure off of perfection, a bit.

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Jim,

What makes you think it will be different and it will work?

Your Father is in recovery? Are you being deluded?

Sorry, I have to ask these questions.

Bettina



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